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Why Your Customers Don't Buy From You
Title Decode
Thumbnail X-Ray
Hero's Journey
Emotion Rollercoaster
Money Shots
Content Highlights
Full Article
The 'Live Workshop' Narrative Arc
The Setup
The Contrarian Hook
The Hot Seat
The Proxy Introduction
The Profile Build
Building the ICP
The Framework Deep Dive
The TGO Framework
The Strategy Map
The Journey Map
The Outro
The Payoff & CTA
Emotion-Driven Narrative Analysis
Epiphany
Counter-Intuitive Hook
Relief
The Proxy Problem
Focus
Character Creation
Clarity
Strategic Framework
Empowerment
The Roadmap Home
What This Video Nailed for Monetization
Sponsor Magnetism
Product Placement Craft
Long-Term Value
What Could Sponsors Pay?
Why Your Customers Don't Buy From You
Structure Breakdown
Psychological Triggers
Formula Recognition
SEO Potential
Visual Design Breakdown

Composition Analysis
Emotion Expression
Color Strategy
Text Strategy
Design Formula
Title-Thumbnail Synergy
Content Highlights
Market vs. Target
The 'Avatar' Profile Strategy
The TGO Framework
Customer Journey Mapping (AIDA+C)
Importance of Focusing on a Specific Target Audience
The market is bigger than your target. You're gonna have to say that a thousand times. I'm telling you right now, if we can just focus on one specific target, I'm gonna tell you right now, your business will 2x. Uh if you don't know who your ideal customer profile is, it's a first sign of a problem. But what we can do is we can look at someone who you're like, I'd like to steal their customers. Who the hell are their customers? And that works really well. You want to steal their customers? I'll build the profile for you right now. Once we get to this part, everything else becomes a lot easier. Everybody who reaches out to you has a problem. No one's like super happy with everything and then they call you for some strange reason. The question on that call is, do you have a problem I can solve? Are you cool enough that I want to work with you? And do you have enough money to respect the value I'm going to generate for you?
Those are just the big three questions. Every session that I run, I'm going to teach you how to advance this forward so you can read the customer's mind and give them exactly what they want so you can command a premium and you don't have to sell so much anymore. The number one rule in the client service business: know thy customer. We have to know the customer. We have to know them really well. I'm going to teach you one concept right now. And if this makes sense to you, you'll need to write this down. Okay? All right. This is your target. Okay? And this is the market. And what you need to understand is the market's bigger than your target. The market is bigger than your target. You're going to have to say that a thousand times.
But when we aim out here, we hit zero people. Because when you aim for her, you'll get people a little older, a little younger. You'll get guys, you get all kinds of people. I'm telling you right now, if we can just focus on one specific target, I'm going to tell you right now, your business will 2x.
Building an Ideal Customer Profile for New Businesses
To warn you all, when you guys build your ideal customer profile sometimes you just make them who you want them to be and they're not even real. Now this is a new business I'm building. I'm still trying to figure it out. So I'm actually not sure who my ideal customer. I love that we can work with that though. If you said that I can the thing is like as you're asking me I'm not sitting here trying to be like vague or anything like that. It's just that I honestly don't know. Right. So. Okay. And I'm sure a lot of people are in that place right now. This is great son. This is excellent. Uh if you don't know who your ideal customer profile is, it's a first sign of a problem. But what we can do is we can look at someone who you're like, I'd like to steal their customers.
Who the hell are their customers? And that works really well. So if you're a new company, if you're a startup, you have no customers. We understand that. So you look at like I would really love to take some of the market share away from them. I believe this is what big companies do. They're like, "How do we get uh 38-year-old yoga moms involved in our business? " Well, where do they buy from? Let's try and understand that. And then we reverse engineer. So, if you can just think of like, oh my god, there's a person who's doing this. We think their customers are this. Steal their customers. That's how you do it. All right.
So, we'll do this together.
Example: Building a Profile for a New York Realtor
Real estate. Okay. All right. Still New York. Uh, New York. Fine. Uh, I think they make a lot more money than this. How much money do you think they make a year? Maybe 500K. Yeah, they're they're up there. I'm going to say like 450. Okay. Okay. Somebody who's doing this number would buy some personal branding services. Okay.
I feel like we're getting closer here. Okay. All right. So, if this is a realtor in New York, you pick New York. I don't know about New Yorker, so I don't know the deal. What are some of their hobbies and activities? Do you know Pilates? I guess the person I'm thinking of is male. Yeah. Yoga, shopping. She loves to shop for sure. Like luxury brands. Let's go down here. Brand affinities. Whole Foods.
Like more more like Dina Duca, right? Probably. Yeah. Oh, you New Yorkers. Airwan. They don't have New York. See, he picked New York. So, I'm Italy. Yeah, like that. Yeah. Lululemon for sure. Yeah. Lululemon. Chanel. Chanel.
What else? LV. Probably. Yeah. Uh, what kind of car? A Porsche Cayenne. That's very specific. That's what every That's what all of them drive. Uh what other interests does she have? Like I think a lot of them are into this like new age like meditation all. Okay. Yeah I I that feels right. Just take the derogatory part out of it. Yeah. Okay.
New age meditation like astrology things like that. Yes. Astrology for sure. I feel that like spirituality right like running you know like. Yeah. She's really fit. I see that. High performance. Yeah. Going out to eat, stuff like that. Traveling, fine dining, the basic. Yeah, fine dining, travel. So once we start understanding the activities, we start to make sure the profile feels complete. Where does she consume most of her content from? I already know the answer by my ass.
Instagram. Yeah. And you know where else? Facebook. Facebook. The older demo. Facebook. I don't get it, but you know, I'm saying I'm not old. Okay, we're not going to spend too much time now. Now, we're going to give her a name. The name matters because it tells us her ethnicity a little bit. Miranda. Miranda. I love that. Okay.
I like that. Yesterday, we struggled to name. What's Miranda's last name? Jones. Oh, you're good at this. Miranda Jones. Do we have a nickname for Miranda Jones? An avatar. Hustle. Hustle. I like that. Miranda the Hustler Jones. Yeah. Perfect. You guys get a clear visual in your mind.
Once we get to this part, everything else becomes a lot easier. So, we usually struggle with this for a little bit and then we get there. This is perfect.
Defining Needs, Wants, Hopes, and Fears in the Customer Profile
What does she need? This is usually externally. She's usually asking for something. Can you help me with this? What does she need? Yeah. So, like she wants to grow their Instagram. Her Instagram grow IG followers. So, these are their needs, right? So, what are their internal wants? So, people say I I want to grow my account. What's the internal emotional want? What's the feeling? What do they want? They want to feel important.
They want to feel significant, like they mean something in this world and that they uh have a legacy they can leave behind. Legacy, impact. Um there's probably also some kind of business needs. I think there's a perception if we grow our followers, what will happen to our business? Higher quality leads. Yes. Next, uh double the uh double the profit. Increase the profit. 2x profit. Scale the team. Scale the team. Yeah. Okay. When you build your own customer profile, you have to be realistic about what do they feel about people like us. When you can understand that, you'll sell to them differently.
You'll talk to them differently. Okay. What does she hope to have happen if they work with you? 20,000 followers. 20,000 followers. That's pretty good. Would you guys like 20,000 new followers on Instagram? It's hard these days, isn't it? We don't have to have the dreams anymore. What she's afraid of is being burned, wasting money, wasting time. So, we write that down. Yeah. A lot of waste. Okay. Or maybe not vibing with you.
And that's a big one. Like the vibe. Yeah. I actually think there's a fear of like they're gonna make me do something I don't want to do. Yeah. Like. Yeah. So there's a vibe check. They're going to make me dance on TikTok or something like that. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. That's a profile. We good with this profile everybody? Excellent.
Okay. Great job. Have you guys done this before?
Introduction to the TGO Framework
Task app opportunity. TGO. This is a really helpful exercise. This is a framework. So frameworks are tools that you can use, mental models that you can use to solve problems. I learned this from uh one of my friends, Nicole Johnson, who works in user experience design. She told me about TGO. I'm like, I love TGO. So tasks are the jobs that she has to do from morning to night, hence the sun and the moon, right? And then we'll go and what look at the obstacles that are preventing them from doing that. And then the opportunity is like, what could we do to make their lives easier? It's really that simple. Okay.
Applying the TGO Framework: Daily Tasks and Routine
Her day begins at 5:00. What's she doing at 5:00? Um, she's probably like doing yoga. She probably doing workout, right? Yeah. Does she have like a preworkout meal? Yeah. Yeah, probably. Pre-workout meal. Okay. And then she's going to go work out. Mhm. Probably at some kind of gym. Yeah. Some nice gym.
Yeah. What's a nice gym? Or like at home? Equinox. Equinox. Like in New York, space is tight right? Yeah. Okay. Equinox should probably have breakfast. Okay. Get the kids to school. Get Get Wait, how old are they? 12,5. Yeah. No, still get them to school.
Yeah, get to school. Get the kids ready. Get to school. That late. She's actually probably doing a little bit of work in between that like checking emails and stuff. Don't you think she's checking socials? Yeah, checking social emails. Right. Okay. All right. That one was not super specific. Usually we'd like to make these a little bit more specific, but that's totally okay. You guys get the idea.
Identifying Obstacles in the TGO Framework
What are the obstacles that stand in her way that slows her down? Because then the opportunity is right there. You guys have heard this uh like be behind like every obstacle is an opportunity wrapped in disguise. Okay. Every obstacle is an opportunity wrapped in disguise. So what's the obstacle?
Miranda's Daily Obstacles
Equinox workout. So, I'm assuming there's a commute there. Yeah. Commute. Getting dressed. Yep. Like what to wear, right? And then probably meeting with her trainer probably. Right. And just exhaustion probably. Getting out of bed. Yeah. Exhaustion. Yeah. Breakfast.
Yeah. Like you have to make it. Yeah. It's prep, right? Okay. And maybe some shopping, too. Yeah. The ingredients didn't appear. Yeah. You need to. Yeah. Maybe some things are expired in the fridge. Mhm. Yeah. Okay.
Kids at school. Um, what's the obstacle there? Are you mom? Okay. Yeah. Yeah, you got to wake them up. You know, you have enough kids around you. All right. What else? You got to get them dressed. Yeah. Dressed. Checking email or social. What's the obstacle? That's, I don't know.
What do you? What is it? Well, like log jam. Too many emails to go through. Sorting emails. What's important? Okay. I'm pretty sure she's ADD or ADHD. I'm almost certain of it. Okay. Because almost all of them are. Okay. Like I'm almost like scared to open email. Like for me it's like a psychological obstacle. Okay.
And then what about the social part? Looking for ideas usually getting inspired probably a little jealousy or envy of people who are just crushing. So there's an emotion there. Okay. Yeah. So stuff like that.
Identifying Opportunities for Solutions
So we'll move on to the opportunity. Okay. What of these things can we solve that we want to solve? You're going to give her a strategy on how to sort and get through those emails and how to look for ideas. You would do that if you were like a virtual assistant company, but he's trying to sell personal branding. So, he's not going to want to get into her emails. I don't think you follow me. So, he can help her out with the social media stuff. Maybe he sends out an email, more emails, highlighting the best of the best. So, she's searching for all kinds of stuff. He's already doing that. Sourcing. And if he did a breakdown of that, that would be even more valuable for her. It's like, this is good. This is why it went viral.
And this is how you can do this in under 60 seconds a day or something or 2 minutes. See what I'm saying? Now we're looking for a problem because when we find a good problem, we have a good solution. So that was great. You follow me now? Because I'm sure you don't do this. So, she's on social looking for ideas, finding inspiration, but also feeling kind of bad that other people are doing really great. And remember, her psychological profile is she thinks it's going to be a lot of work or this is cookie cutter, it's too much, whatever it is. So, you can provide a potential solution based on her psychographic profile. So, what we can do is we can offer an audit, a social media audit, personalized. So, if you take this quiz, if you qualify, I'll audit your account and tell you the four things you need to do, right? Yeah. Yes. Perfect. Thank you.
Customer Retention and Journey Mapping
It's really hard to get a customer, right? It's easier to keep a customer buying more stuff from you. And that's the thing that most of us don't figure out. We do one job with one customer, they pay us, and they're gone. We don't have a strong relationship with them. When someone else figures that out, they'll no longer come to you. Are you guys aware of a customer journey map? Some of you who do user experience design are very familiar with this. And there's many different ways of doing it. I just want to share with you the easiest way I know how to do it. And the way I know how to do it, it's so easy because I can remember it without any notes. And I'm going to teach you a little hack here. Okay? If you're familiar with copywriting, there's a rule that we use to write headlines. It's called AIDA, right?
Awareness, Interest, Desire, and Action. Call to action. AIDA. It's quite famous. We don't know exactly who invented it, but most copywriters, direct marketing people use AIDA. So when I learned this, all we do is add one extra letter. There's your A, there's your I, there's your D, there's your A. All we add is one extra letter, C. And the C stands for conversion. Okay, so the prompt is how do they become aware? What makes them interested? Why do they desire? Why do they convert? Meaning why do they buy? And then how do they become advocates for what we do?
Most of us stop here. We get the conversion, we never see them again. It's like see you later right? But like I said before, if we can keep them as a long-term customer, our business will grow and the relationship would strengthen and at some point you'll be irreplaceable, which is what we all want.
Applying AIDCA to Miranda: Awareness Stage
Okay. So in this state, they're not fully aware that they have a problem. So, from a marketing standpoint, you want to talk about the problem. So, uh, what's her name? Miranda. Miranda doesn't quite fully understand she has a problem. She has an inkling of it, but we will sell more if we just talk about the problem in our marketing, which is probably what you know how to do really well, right, son? So, she's not aware her content is boring. Yeah. Okay. What else? Doesn't hurt. Nobody cares about her content. No one cares. Yeah.
Okay. No one cares. She thinks she's putting it in. Okay. But low low effort then. Okay. Okay. Perfect. Oh, no one cares about me. And you might say, I am boring or you're bad at what you do. Not special. Now that you're agitating the problem, why do you become interested now? Okay. What will you do to make them more aware? So they're in problem unaware, then they become solution unaware, then product unaware.
So now what is the solution to this? And then you are the product.
Applying AIDCA: Interest and Solution Awareness
Okay. They probably need a social media strategy. Right? They probably need to do best practices. They need to learn how to write better, which will help you with your thing. Write better. So now they're great. Where will I buy this from? Well, then then you have to do your thing that makes you unique. So what is one piece of content that you can produce that move them from this to this, right? So here's what happens. you post something like, um, if you're doing these three things, this is not great, but we're just working with it. If you do these three things, you're just wasting your time. So, all of a sudden, they see that piece of content, they go check out more content that drives them down the funnel, they check out your account, and then now you're having more content that speak to the potential solutions, which will then be what? What will you give them as a piece of content?
Start with the myth. Give an example. And then give them the truth. Myth, example, truth. Yeah. Perfect. Right. Here's one thing you believe to be true, which is not. Here's an example, and then here's what you need to do instead. Perfect. So, you do enough of those pieces of content like, who is this smart guy or this company? I need to figure this thing out from. Yes. Beautiful.
Applying AIDCA: Desire and Uniqueness
Okay. Now, what is Now, I want to buy something from someone. Why you versus someone else? You all understand what we're doing here? First, they didn't even know they had a problem. We made them aware of the problem. These are the types of solutions they need. And now, between you and three other people, why would they choose you? What makes you and your program so unique or different? Because I have the I have that framework, myth, example, truth that we practice in our community. Okay. So, you have the framework and I think so you want me to give you my differentiator, I guess. Maybe it's easy, right? And you have a high success rate. I also think like uh of our community as like a gym.
So, it's it's like we have the community to keep you so that you'll consistently work on the content. Yeah. It's not like a onetime thing. It's like we have accountability. Okay. So, accountability. This is all good.
Applying AIDCA: Conversion and Offer Structure
Why would they buy? Did you put them on a fiveday challenge? How do they how do they go from I'm going to do a webinar once a month. Perfect. So, they do a webinar and on the webinar, what do they experience such that they're like, I'm ready to buy from you now. Um, so I'm going to do something similar to this, but like basically how how do you go from content to to lead generation and why you need kind of storytelling in each step of each one of those steps. You're going to show them and then I'm going to give them example of like Okay. And then you have to make them feel, I think, empowered that they can do it, right? Yep. Okay. And then you have to kind of lay out the plan so that they don't have to do too much thinking like, "Oh, this guy knows what he's doing. " When you join the program, one, two, and three will happen. Or you can we we're almost dovetailing into irresistible offer. Now, you can offer some kind of money back guarantee or try before you buy, right? Got it.
Okay. Establish a quick win. Something like that. Yeah. We can get really specific. Let me walk you through this how this works.
Funnel Visualization and Strategy
Okay. We imagine Miranda, she has a problem. We understand it really well. We've understood a little bit of her day and what she's feeling about that day. Yeah. And now what we want to do is we want to gently bring her from awareness, interest, desire into conversion. So we're bringing her down the funnel. This really should look like a triangle because this has broad interest. Lots of people get smaller and smaller, right? So it's it's like TOFU top of funnel, middle of funnel, and bottom of BOFU. looks like that, but it's probably a lot sharper than that. Okay. So, this has to appeal to lots of people because if you don't appeal to a lot of people, just through attrition, this gets really, really small really fast.